Month: June 2016


Not Getting Good Vibes

Since I generally talk about homes and stuff, I figured I’d change it up and talk about my romantic life.  Of course it depends on your personality, however this kind of thing can actually make a big influence on everything that is going on in your life.  That could be selling houses, buying houses, or whatever.  When I talk to my friends it seems that we usually mention our relationships. It’s weird but I’m like the only one of my friends who is frustrated with their romance right now. The reasons aren’t important, but it sucks to have your friends bragging about how awesome everything is and you’re like yeah, I wish it was that way for my situation. Basically I’ve been dating a woman I met and things are going kind of well but it’s one of those situation in which you feel that you should probably leave the relationship but you kind of like the person. It’s not that it’s bad, it’s just that I don’t think we really have the same interests. But anyway, my friends rule. They were telling me how they’ve met people that they get along with so well that it’s not even normal. I have dated someone like that before and I really liked it. So I’m glad for them. But I have been thinking that I should probably either start a conversation with the girl I’m dating or just go ahead and break up with her. Which I don’t want to do. But I kind of do. The more I read about this definition of rules in a relationship the more I’m thinking I should probably just break up.

But my friends are in that phase where all they do is talk about their girlfriends. And you know how it’s like that when you s tart dating someone. But I think that most of the reason is because most of them are pretty gleeful in their lives anyway so they just want to mention the things they like. They always do that. There’s nothing wrong with it. But it really make you think about how you should be in a couple status if you aren’t really thinking that you’re going to like it. I mean you can be with someone and have things be going fine but you know that on some level it’s not the way it needs to be. I don’t like that dynamic. But that’s what I’ve started so I probably need to be the one to be like hey, I think we have to talk. But after I do that it’s just going ton be full of sorrow and worry and concern because that’s what happens when someone says those things. But this woman is cool and she is probably experiencing the same emotions. So I think that I’m going to have to talk to her about this. That’s my relationship for you.